He has always been there and at any moment he will drop what he is doing and come when I call. Sometimes it's just the need to see him, other times there are needs and he is always and has always been there. We are completely different in so many ways. He is well educated and a born leader. He is disciplined and committed in ways that amaze me and baffle me. He is kind and wise. I feel before we came here he was my teacher and I can see me sitting at his feet being taught.
We can go months without speaking and the very moment we are together it is as if not a moment has passed. We have always understood each other and have been able to share lives burdens with each other never having to worry about feeling stupid or less of a man because of our weaknesses. When I am with him I desire to be a better person in every way.
I love this man and I have to say that when he hugs me I feel it deep in my heart. It is like coming home after a hard day. There is a great power in hugs and hugs have the power of lifting like nothing else.
Now since this blog is about healthy relationships with other men I want to say some things here that might be helpful I love this man with all my heart. He is more then a friend, more then a brother, we are kindred spirits. It's hard to express how you feel when you have strong feelings like this for another man. In today's society they would say we are gay. That when you love another man that way you are gay and if you don't admit it you are in the closet.
In saying that I want to say that not once in our friendship have I ever had the desire to have a sexual relationship with this man. Not once have I ever even had the smallest desire to do something inappropriate with him. There just has never been a need. I get all I need from him from a good hug and just being in his presence. It is more than physical, it is spiritual bond we feel and in that bond there is no need to act out in any inappropriate manner. In fact we have laughed, we are very open in our relationship, but we have laughed in how sex would ruin what we have. It cannot get sweeter then it already is and to add sex to it would destroy the sweetness that we share.
My friend is gorgeous to look at. He is very well built and extremely handsome and he is totally a man's man in every sense of the word, but he is also sweet, sensitive, spiritual, kind, and gentle. He is not afraid to share his feelings, and he is not afraid when others share theirs with him. He knows how to hug, not the standard 3 second ones, but a good long hug that lifts the spirits and strengthens the friendship.
It is through this friendship that I have learned to let others in my heart and through this friend I have learned how to make friends with others and really understand the strong spiritual bonds that can exist between two men. From this friend I have learned eternal principles of friendship, he has taught me that friendships really do start before we come here and if we recognize them and understand them, those friendships can become the sweetest part of this mortal life and if we treat these friendships with love and respect they will endure forever. I cannot imagine this life without friends like him and I cannot imagine eternal life without the friendships here we have nurtured and grown by opening up our hearts. I do love this man and am grateful for his goodness and his friendship.
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